
WEIGHT: 54 kg
Breast: 38
One HOUR:100$
Overnight: +30$
Services: Cum on breast, Mistress, Parties, Anal Play, Oral
Should parents love their children unconditionally? Or should children be required to earn their parents love? He writes:. We have to love them unconditionally, he said β for who they are, not for what they do.
As a father, I know this is a tall order, but it becomes even more challenging now that so much of the advice we are given amounts to exactly the opposite. Though I believe ideally we should love our children unconditionally, I think that it is humanly impossible. Kids are experts at pushing their parents buttons and sometimes rather than strangle their children, parents withdraw emotionally so as not to exert physical harm on their children.
I think these studies have gotten bogged down in semantics and definitions and are going to be misunderstood by parents who are loathe to discipline their children. The only real currency I have as a parent is my approval. She wants to make me happy and proud, so she behaves. I love her no matter what, even if I disapprove of behavior.
Children know that you love them by supporting their choices not choices about following rules, but choices about likes and dislikes , letting them explore their own personalities and skills, loving them for who they are not what you pictured them being. What a screwed-up notion that is. Children are there because their parents created them. Should they also need to pay an entry fee for the life that happened to them? To me, unconditional love and conditional parenting are not mutually exclusive; in fact they are completely compatible.
Love should be unconditional. Praise and rewards or criticism and, in more severe cases, punishment should not be. Appropriate praise, rewards, criticism and punishment are the way we express love for our children by teaching them the virtues. If he were not praised or rewarded for hard work, generosity or altruism, he would not learn these moral values. None of this is instinctive; they must be taught. What is conscience but internal pressure?